Memorial Day Thanks To Grandpa

My memorial day visit to the graveyard.

These days, many folks just use Memorial Day as an excuse to take a 3-day boating excursion or take a similar trip.That’s all well and good, but I think it’s nice to remember why every once in a while. So here’s a quick history lesson and a remembrance.

History of Memorial Day (From the wikipedia)

Following the end of the Civil War, many communities set aside a day to mark the end of the war or as a memorial to those who had died. Some of the places creating an early memorial day include Charleston, South Carolina; Boalsburg, Pennsylvania; Richmond, Virginia; Carbondale, Illinois; Columbus, Mississippi; many communities in Vermont; and some two dozen other cities and towns. These observances eventually coalesced around Decoration Day, honoring the Union dead, and the several Confederate Memorial Days.

According to Professor David Blight of the Yale University History Department, the first memorial day was observed in 1865 by liberated slaves at the historic race track in Charleston. The site was a former Confederate prison camp as well as a mass grave for Union soldiers who had died while captive. The freed slaves reinterred the dead Union soldiers from the mass grave to individual graves, fenced in the graveyard & built an entry arch declaring it a Union graveyard – a very daring thing to do in the South shortly after North’s victory. On May 30, 1886? the freed slaves returned to the graveyard with flowers they’d picked from the countryside & decorated the individual gravesites, thereby creating the 1st Decoration Day. A parade with thousands of freed blacks and Union soldiers was followed by patriotic singing and a picnic.

The official birthplace of Memorial Day is Waterloo, New York. The village was credited with being the birthplace because it observed the day on May 5, 1866, and each year thereafter, and because it is likely that the friendship of General John Murray, a distinguished citizen of Waterloo, and General John A. Logan, who led the call for the day to be observed each year and helped spread the event nationwide, was a key factor in its growth.

General Logan had been impressed by the way the South honored their dead with a special day and decided the Union needed a similar day. Reportedly, Logan said that it was most fitting; that the ancients, especially the Greeks, had honored their dead, particularly their heroes, by chaplets of laurel and flowers, and that he intended to issue an order designating a day for decorating the grave of every soldier in the land, and if he could he would have made it a holiday.

Logan had been the principal speaker in a citywide memorial observation on April 29, 1866, at a cemetery in Carbondale, Illinois, an event that likely gave him the idea to make it a national holiday. On May 5, 1868, in his capacity as commander-in-chief of the Grand Army of the Republic, a veterans’ organization, Logan issued a proclamation that “Decoration Day” be observed nationwide. It was observed for the first time on May 30 of the same year; the date was chosen because it was not the anniversary of a battle. The tombs of fallen Union soldiers were decorated in remembrance of this day.

Many of the states of the U.S. South refused to celebrate Decoration Day, due to lingering hostility towards the Union Army and also because there were very few veterans of the Union Army who lived in the South. A notable exception was Columbus, Mississippi, which on April 25, 1866 at its Decoration Day commemorated both the Union and Confederate casualties buried in its cemetery.

The alternative name of “Memorial Day” was first used in 1882, but did not become more common until after World War II, and was not declared the official name by Federal law until 1967 . On June 28, 1968, the United States Congress passed the Uniform Holidays Bill, which moved three holidays from their traditional dates to a specified Monday in order to create a convenient three-day weekend and for the first time recognized Columbus Day as a federal holiday. The holidays included Washington’s Birthday (which evolved into Presidents’ Day), Veterans Day, and Memorial Day. The change moved Memorial Day from its traditional May 30 date to the last Monday in May. The law took effect at the federal level in 1971 . After some initial confusion and unwillingness to comply at the state level, all fifty states adopted the measure within a few years, although Veterans Day was eventually changed back to its traditional date. Ironically, most corporate businesses no longer close on Columbus Day or Veterans Day, and an increasing number are staying open on President’s Day as well. Memorial Day, however, has endured as one holiday during which most businesses stay closed because it marks the beginning of the “summer vacation season,” as does neighboring Canada’s Victoria Day, which occurs just before, on the third Monday in May.

Thanks, Grandpa

I’d just like to take a minute to honor my Grandpa Stan.

During World War II, he served as a crew chief in the 305th Bomb Group of the U.S. Army Air Corps. His group sent planes on 110 consecutive combat missions without mechanical abortion, a feat for which he received the bronze star. It’s thanks to efforts like his that Nazi Germany and Japan were defeated.

He died July 25, 2005, and I will always regret not spending enough time with him learning of his life, and therefore my own past. He was a hero and a great man, and I will forever be grateful to him, along with the many other patriots throughout the ears who have helped secure my freedom.

4 thoughts on “Memorial Day Thanks To Grandpa

  1. Thanks for the message about memorial day. I wish more people had the sense of history and gratitude you do.


  2. Bravo to you good sir. As you have reminded us, far too many people have forgotten what Memorial Day is all about. This year I spent the day in quiet prayer and contemplation, remembering friends who gave their lives in Operation Iraqi Freedom II in 2004 at Taji, Balad and Baghdad, surrounded by the good men and women who are now protecting our freedom at Scott AFB, Illinois. One of those folks is my son whom I am very proud of. He’s following in a long and honored family tradition of service to our great nation. May God bless and keep all those souls who have given their lives so that we and peoples around the world, from Europe to the Middle East, may be free. I will never forget you my friends.

  3. Grandpa was a good man. He lived with my family up to his passing. He almost never spoke of the war, and certainly never spoke of his achievements. The 4 years at war must have been lonely, among so many other things, having to leaving his wife whom he’d been married to for less than a year. He served well and quietly endured.

    To all those who gave so much in silence, I hear you, I thank you.

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